First off...I committed murder. Imagine my shock and heartache when I opened my window and saw a poor little creature stuck to it. 😭 I had no idea he had crawled in. I would have loved to see the little guy alive. I love lizards!
May God have mercy on my soul. 😣
We've decided we want to rent for a while. Maybe for the next 4 years until we get permanent residency, when it will be easier to buy.
Renting is cheap. The house is nice. Moving is exhausting. So...? Also I'm not going to spend $250k for a fancy American house when I can get a liveable house in the local area for $100k or less. Y'know?
My therapist said, "I remember last month (I usually only see him once a month) you were worried you made the wrong decision to move to Mexico. I bet you know you did right now."
I never had a moment where I thought, 'Yep! I did the right thing!' I know this is a good life for us, and I don't regret moving here. I just haven't paid as much attention to the catastrophe going on in the USA. But for him, living there, having it in his face, he must see that I had the right idea.
All along I was stressed over still having a house to sell in the USA. Our realtor contract was up in June and I didn't know what we would have to do once that was up. I worried it could be years until we could sell it. I worried I'd have to arrange to have it rented out and live through that nightmare a few years.
The amount of stress that lifted off me when we finally sold this place. It's like a miracle. I feel that yeah, NOW I know I made the right decision. Now that I no longer have property in the USA and now have money. NOW I can relax. Now I know everything is going to be okay and there's nothing to stop me and my mom from living our best lives here.
And the money will grow. At least for a year, but probably 4 years until we're permanent residents. Maybe longer. Rent is cheap and I can see myself renting until I have to move into assisted living in 25 years. Who knows.
I do know that it's hard to sell a house in Mexico. These are not the good investments you find in the USA. The houses here don't appreciate at the rate of the USA. It takes a long time to sell. So...if I bought a house and had to sell it, it would again be a big pain. And we like our rental.
I told my therapist that we like it here because we're friends with the neighbors and there's so many little shops, restaurants, beauty salons, pharmacies, convenience stores, butcher shops, grocery stores, etc. that are just a short walk away. We only have to take the car out of the locked gate once or twice a month. I'm spending a lot less on gas.
Delivery is dirt cheap here too, just not from Walmart anymore. It's fine to just order a few things from Didi food. Yesterday we got bananas, mangos, oranges, potatoes, and soda. 400 pesos or $20 including everything, and the drivers are super fast. Gotta hustle out here.
I noticed this sign outside the Oxxo by my house. Here's what I found out:
Good to know!
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^^^^^^ That was 1997. Holy Santa Claus Mierda!
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